19th August 2006
When we fell pregnant with our second child we decided that we wanted a water birth at home. I had carried well first time round and had a water birth in hospital without any problems with our son. Being at home I believed would be beneficial to me, my partner and my son.
Anjie and Susan were our midwives throughout my pregnancy, coming to the house often when Dave (my partner) was home and really giving us time to talk about anything and everything. Knowing that they would be at our birth was fantastic and that our request for a positive natural birth experience was supported fully.
It was Saturday 19th August, and I still had 18 days to go, when Indigo decided today was the day. I had been shopping and at the hairdressers I had period like cramps but nothing bad, I contacted Anjie when my mucous plug came away. Late in the afternoon I continued shopping and we kept in contact regularly. It was about 5pm and I was heading to the in laws to pick up Dave and Saxon. I was in their house when my waters broke suddenly. I contacted Anjie and headed home.
We arrived home and the contractions were very strong I got straight into the shower as I find water helped me especially on my lower back. In the mean time Dave was putting up the pool, we weren’t quite prepared as we thought we had a few more weeks.
Anjie and Susan arrived it was about 6.30pm, I was glad when they got here. I was happy we had made the decision to have the birth at home; being in my own space was amazing. Dave finished putting up the pool; we were lying on our bed, Dave massaging my back, helping me through my contractions. He was amazing saying and doing the right things.
Anjie had given me some homeopathics for anxiety, pain etc. I found these helped immensely. Anjie and Susan didn’t interfere they just let us be and do what we wanted as a couple
I got the urge to push and wanted to get in the pool a.s.a.p. Dave got in with me, the pool was warm and oils were burning, candles were lit around the house. I was on my knees leaning on Dave; he was massaging my lower back. Then I got onto my back and with the next contraction the head was out, we then got to meet our beautiful baby.
Both of us gazing at this life we had created and birthed together. Dave told me we had a baby girl, I was in awe. She had been born at 19.47 just 12 minutes after I got in the pool. We had time to share those first precious moments still attached to the umbilical cord. Anjie and Susan taking photos for us, it was the most amazing experience.
Dave got out of the pool with Indigo and I birth the placenta. Then I got into my robe and got into my own bed with our daughter. Susan made us
Thanks Anjie and Susan for making our dreams come true.
Happy mum Marie